Some forums can only be seen by registered members. View detailed profile Advanced or search site with Search Forums Advanced. Originally Posted by bpeeps. OP, everyone telling you to date outside your race doesn't realize it is much easier said than done. As more and more black guys date white girls, the reverse is simply much harder to accomplish not impossible, but more difficult.
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From an early age, straight hair, light skin, docile personalities, thin bodies are what the media reinforces. These white beauty standards are presented to us in everything we consume, television, movies, magazines, media, etc. Because black women don't meet these standards, other races especially white men generalize and say things like "I'm not attracted to black girls". Anecdotally speaking, I've heard many of my white male friends say things similar. Black women are stereotyped as loud, overbearing, overweight, with personalities that are too strong and opinionated.
For those who grow up outside the African American culture, this is what they see. Location: State of Washington How do you know the problem with dating men is due to your race? Maybe you're giving off low-esteem vibes that no man will find attractive. If you are attractive, dressed nicely and have a decent figure, it won't matter what color you are.
Ugly comes in all colors just like beauty. Everybody has preferences, including black men and for all the ones you say won't date you, there are just as many who will. A larger of black women are dating men of all races instead of sitting around waiting for a black man to notice them.
Black men are no different than any other men, they ask out whomever they want to regardless of race. Expand your horizons. Originally Posted by jbold1. Hello, I moved to Los Angeles in June and I've had the hardest time dating since I moved here and I am not sure what the problem is.
I am not opposed to dating outside of my race but I never in all my adult years had a hard time dating being asked out, or approached. I feel after my short time here that black women in the eyes of black men are not an option. I am more comfortable dating black men as its what I am used to, but maybe it's time for me to open up. There presents another problem, how do you date as a woman in general in LA??? Please help!!
Originally Posted by stephei If you are more comfortable dating black men why did you move to Southern California or out west period? You won't get much attention as an AA female like if you were in a Southern or Midwestern city. I did not mean to sound mean as one of the things I know if I ever to move to Southern California is to not expect attention for from black men as they tend to date other races.
I know as a black female my dating would be less in Southern California. However, if you are open to interracial dating there is a specific meetup website that caters to black women that date outside their race. You could have success there if you are open to it. I hate comments like this because there simply isn't enough information given from the OP.
And usually the person commenting can't recognize that simple fact. There are a million reasons why she could have moved to SoCal. Job, friends, new start, weather, family care, whatever. I doubt her life solely revolves around dating. Asking why she moved to SoCal for dating is irrelevant and derails the topic at hand.
She lives here now and she wants to date here, so please comment on the actual problem. Sorry about that. I did come off kind of harsh.
I am sure the OP moved for other reasons, but what I usually meant hopefully the OP was able to visit ly and understand the culture of L. A which is drastically different from the Midwest or the South. Race relations is generally tend to be lighter, I guess that is one of the things I pay attention to before I move, and I figured it would be important to that person to since she has posted.
For example, people talk about just go drinking in a bar and you will meet someone of a different race.
In place like Chicago this would not necessarily happen and would be much harder, I do not care how friendly you are. Overall dating of different races seems more laid back and the OP should take advantage of that. Lastly, with the meetup website if she types in her zipcode and interracial dating there is a group in Culver City.
I am not sure how close the OP lives to that area. Originally Posted by NyWriterdude. I seriously doubt in the entire whole big city of Chicago there are no bars with a mixed clientele.
Often people project their entire lifestyles onto a city. With that said, just as no city is racism free, there are people who interact with people regardless of race anywhere in the country. Things start with you. If you're an outgoing person with an active social life particularly where alcohol is concerned you'll meet people of all races.
The only discrimination in the LA dating scene for a woman is beauty and age. That is, if a woman is hot or even just cutein shape and under 40 she will get hit on ALL the time by ALL kinds of guys. I am pretty sure even David Duke would want to hit Beyonce. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Additional giveaways are planned. Detailed information about all U. User-defined colors Preset color patterns. Opacity: Opacity.
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2 of 5. Advertisements Quote: Originally Posted by bpeeps OP, everyone telling you to date outside your race doesn't realize it is much easier said than done. Location: State of Washington 4, posts, read 2, times Reputation: Quote: Originally Posted by stephei If you are more comfortable dating black men why did you move to Southern California or out west period?
Quote: Originally Posted by bpeeps I hate comments like this because there simply isn't enough information given from the OP. Quote: Originally Posted by stephei Sorry about that.