For much of the last two decades since independence the former Soviet republic of Georgia has often hit the headlines for all the wrong reasons. War, instability, corruption and Stalin. But, as Damien McGuinness reports, there is more to Georgia than that. Spoken Georgian is like no other language you are likely to hear.
It belongs to its own ancient linguistic group unlike any other language spoken outside the region. It includes rare sounds that many visitors may never have heard foreigners dating in Georgia. Some consonants, for example, are pronounced from the back of the throat with a sudden guttural puff of air. Georgian has its own letter alphabet thought to be based on the sort of Aramaic spoken in the time of Jesus. To the untutored eye, the letters look very much alike.
A squiggle too far and your "k" can easily turn into a "v" or a "p". But even without understanding it, Georgian writing is beautiful, a myriad of theatrical swirls and flourishes. Very fitting to a country of dramatic personalities. At least, not by Georgians. They call their country Sakartvelo.
The origins of the country's name in English are obscure. One theory points to the Middle Ages when Christian crusaders swept through the region on their way to the Holy Land. At that time, it was part of the Persian Empire and the people here were known as "Gurj". They were also devotees of St George. Theory has it that the crusaders made the connection and named the country Georgia.
These days, there's no mistaking the link to St George.
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A golden statue of the saint slaying a dragon dominates Tbilisi's central square. He is also Georgia's patron saint and the national flag featuring his red cross on a white background is everywhere. Go to any flea market in Georgia and you're likely to stumble across a moustachioed face looking out at you amid the bric-a-brac.
Sixty years after his death there's still a market for portraits of Joseph Stalin, the Georgian-born ruler of the former Soviet Union. As Georgia's most famous son, attitudes here towards "Uncle Joe" are complicated. After independence, many Stalin statues were torn down but now some are returning to town squares. Some older Georgians revere him as a strong leader, who defeated Hitler, and are proud that tiny Georgia produced someone who had such an impact on world history.
But more often he's viewed as a tyrant responsible for brutal purges of his own people. What's the highest mountain range in Europe?
The Alps? It is the Caucasus Mountains marking the border between Georgia and Russia. While the highest peak is in Russia, Georgia lays claim to the second highest, Shkara, which at 5,m 17, ft beats Mont Blanc by nearly m 1, ft. These dramatic mountains, with their terrifying hairpin ro and hidden villages cut off at winter, are the stuff of legend. In Greek mythology they were one of the pillars holding up the world. And it was here that Zeus tied up Prometheus, to have his liver eaten by eagles.
Today they are increasingly becoming a destination for climbers, walkers or skiers looking for adventure. There is a startling amount of space-age architecture in Georgia. The new parliament building is a huge glass and concrete bubble, looking like a giant frog's eye. A slew of new police stations have been built that are all glass and see through, symbolic of Georgia's aspirations for democratic transparency.
Meanwhile, many of the country's ro and infrastructure remains in bad shape.
President Mikheil Saakashvili's preference for flashy prestige projects to impress foreign investors and politicians, has not gone unnoticed. Also, while glass government buildings may work well in temperate Northern Europe, buildings constructed like greenhouses are less suited to Georgia's scorching summers. There is a lot of body contact between men in Georgia. Men stroll down the main avenue arm-in-arm, or lounge on street corners, limbs entwined.
A casual observer might be forgiven for thinking that this was a of tolerance towards homosexuality. They'd probably be wrong. According to surveys Georgia is one of the world's most homophobic countries - attitudes which came to the surface in May during a violent anti-gay demonstration in Tbilisi. Tens of thousands of people were angry because a group of gay rights activists had wanted to gather for 30 minutes against homophobic violence.
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The anti-gay protesters shouted slogans through megaphones, and called for "gays to go back to Europe". Many other Georgians, though, were shocked by the display of intolerance, describing it as "a sad day for Georgia. A guest is a gift from God, goes the saying in Georgia. So foreign visitors are plied with food and drink - an enjoyable experience, if not always good for the waistline.
But "a toast! Out comes a bottle of Chacha, the lethal Georgian schnapps, or a large plastic bottle of homemade wine. Both must be downed in large shots. Excuses that you have to drive back six hours along twisting mountain ro won't be accepted.
Instead, you'll be offered a bed for the night, and be propelled into a full-scale traditional feast. While many European nations have seen religious adherence fall in recent decades, the Orthodox Church in Georgia is booming.
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Attendance, adherence and respect for the Church are all growing. Dating back to the 4th Century, the Church helped the country keep its ancient musical traditions during the Soviet era and has been central to Georgians' sense of themselves since independence. After centuries of domination by foreign powers, Georgians are sceptical of government. So family and friends are crucial for getting anything done. One such cousin helped us buy a second-hand car, another got us accommodation at an army base when heavy snow trapped us in the mountains.
With social welfare often patchy, it's the family on which Georgians rely in times of crisis. The leafy boulevards of the Georgian capital Tbilisi look like Paris, and the English-speaking young hipsters wouldn't look out of place in Berlin. But take a look at a map and you'll find the former Soviet republic 1,km miles east of the Bosphorus, marooned in Asia.
Other definitions place the whole Caucasus region, including Georgia, in Europe which is where most Georgians feel it belongs.
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Head into the countryside however, where farmers scratch out a subsistence living, and it's a different story. Here are 10 other memorable things about the country. Tongue twister. Georgia isn't called Georgia.
Where's Uncle Joe? High mountains. An architect's dream. Tread carefully. Georgians are a friendly bunch. Religion is big. Keep it in the family. Georgia is in Europe, not the United States.